Marriage is one of the seven Sacraments celebrated within the Catholic Church. Every aspect of the ceremony should reflect the dignity a Sacrament deserves: dresses, music, decorations and other details.
Weddings dates should be scheduled no less than six months prior to the marriage. Meet with a priest or deacon of the parish where you plan to be married. If both parties are free to marry in the church, preparation requirements will be discussed. If either the intended bride or groom, whether Catholic or non-Catholic, was previously married, no wedding date may be set until all previous marriages have been declared null and void by the proper diocesan authorities.
A marriage between two Catholics usually takes place during Mass but, for good reason, may be celebrated outside the Mass. The marriage of a Catholic and non-Catholic takes place outside the Mass. Again, under certain circumstances, a mixed marriage (Catholic and Non-Catholic) may take place during the Mass with the understanding that only the Catholic may receive Holy Communion. A marriage between a Catholic and a non-Baptized person is always celebrated outside the Mass.
The bishops of Texas do not allow Catholic clergy to witness marriages outside a sacred place (church, chapel, etc.). Clergy may not witness marriages in back yards, beach-side or other secular spaces. Only religious music suitable for church use is permitted for marriage ceremonies.
Questions regarding the use of candles, flowers and other decorations should be discussed with the priest, deacon or parish liturgical coordinator. Please contact the parish office 979-335-7551.